When going through life there are certain aspects that seems like it is under your control and then there are certain things that happen to you that seem outside your influence. We call these incidents “shit happens” but then the question I always want to ask is, are the thing that seem like seemingly our control really under our control or do we only think that is so?
When things happen in life, where coincidences are occurring so rapidly it really begs the notion that perhaps all things are under effect of some other forces shaping reality. How else can you explain meeting that person whom you were supposed to meet at the exact time and date that forever changed your lives?
Do things happen to us or do things happen because of us?
Sure we could dismiss these notions as simply accidents or chances, but when things re-occur over and over again the hold similar, peculiar message behind them its almost as if those actions are under greater control of something else. For example, in order to meet that specific person in that specific time and day, that person’s every little movement that day had to be perfectly synced to him or her going to that bus stop in that exact moment so he could meet you. This includes her forgetting keys in the house and going back and searching for 10 min, this includes the train that came through that forced her stuck waiting for it to leave for 5 min.
And the pace that she walked and so forth and everything till she met that man at the bus stop who quickly got on the bus, only exchanging glances 1-2 seconds but making a strong impression where they met again at a mutual friend party and they started talking with the comments “hey! I saw you at that bus stop the other day”
And the two entered relationship and soon after married.
These are incidents of real life people. When things happen we can look at them in two ways. That everything is an accident or everything has a purpose.
However not everyday do we feel like we are on the ball, some days the day just goes and everything we do falls down and collapse. We call these days our off days.
Perhaps the more correct perspective is that there are some states we enter that allows us to enter more synchronicity life events while there are other states where we go into discord with our surroundings.
The fact that these phenomenon seem to exist in people’s life experience should be enough to warrant this is true and real possibility. It doesn’t just happen to 1 person sometimes, we can bet big money that it happens to everyone before.
Some people just may not be aware of it.
Synchronicity Leads to New Business Opportunities
Let me give you my latest experience with what I like to call Synchronicity Life events.
Few blog back, I wrote about sealing a deal with tow truck guy after getting my car towed.
As I sat there at the auto repair shop, waiting for my car to get fixed, I sat next to a gentlemen and me and him started making small talk. It first started with the magazine with sports cars on it that I was reading in the waiting room. He then told me he owns a Corvette and asked me “what type of car guy are you?”
I jokingly answered “Rolls Royce Ghost”, which is one of the most luxurious vehicle on the planet that would only be affordable to the top .01% of the population.
He looked at me and said “well I am making a rolls royce ghost limousine right now”
Well he had my interest because I’ve been looking to get into the limo business, luck would have it I meet this man that’s in the business of building, renting & selling limos and helping people get into the business and coaching them how to do it successful.
And we talked for good 1 hour talking about different limos his built, he even built a Corvette Limo a decade ago that was apparently making him over $160,000 a year.
In hindsight, this was an insane synchronicity, because we exchange numbers and contact info and we’re now meeting few weeks from now discussing what kind of limo to purchase and how to get started with the business which I plan to start on the side.
He showed me his website in which he runs down how to start a limo business properly.
He has been in the business for over 25 years so he is a wealth of information each time I speak to him on the phone.. Now I am gaining confidence and more desire about limousines after seeing some of the vehicles he has listed on the site, I especially love the Rolls Royce Phantom and Excalibur limos.
In Conclusion: I truly believe there is such thing as Destiny, the key for us is to align ourselves with it by holding a vision of what it is that we want to do and have in this life.